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Comment on A New Meaning to Being a Pain Slut in BDSM by BDSM Roleplayer

BDSM Roleplayer — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 04:59:29 +0000

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Hentai — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 23:07:47 +0000

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Wetty Cam Girl — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 17:20:11 +0000

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Comment on An Internet Match Making Success by Slaveduties

Slaveduties — Wed, 03 Mar 2010 16:52:00 +0000

Hi New and Wondering, I wanted to say sorry for taking sooo long in getting back to you! I’m not really sure when I first realized that BDSM was the type of lifestyle best fitted for me, Ever since I was first interested in boys I would go out with these verbally abusive alpha male type guys. I guess I had been looking for it from the very start. When I was about 18 I had a best friend who was into BDSM or rather curious about it and I would let him tie me up every once in awhile. Our friendship never lead to anything more, mainly i think because he was also a submissive deep down. But that’s when I first started to understand myself and why I kept throwing myself into these messed up relationships. Because of my friend I started to search the net for BDSM porn and chat groups. The more porn I watched the more I became sure that this is what I had been missing in my life. I guess that’s also why my blog deals with a lot of porn haha. But yeah, at 19 I found myself at my first bondage party and fell absolutely in love with it. I was like one of those people who get their first tattoo and then become obsessed! And I’ve been that way ever since. It’s been a crazy journey and I have learned so much about myself since then, but I have honestly enjoyed every moment of it. You’re lucky if you have discovered this side of yourself early. I’ve met some people who have only figure it out later on in life and have either suppressed it unhealthily or have had their relationships suffer greatly from it. The best of luck to you=)

yours truly,
Slaveduties

Comment on Padded Kink by pageturners

pageturners — Wed, 03 Mar 2010 05:21:08 +0000

thank you for this… i wonder why i am so self conscious about being a bbw and a sub. i am not morbidly obese- actually i am quite fly… but i think the online porn industry as far as kink goes has given me a false view on the lifestyle.

its ok though, Daddy likes it and says i have a pretty pussy… thats all that matters lol

Comment on BDSM Dating – The Inside Scoop (Update!) by Wyrd

Wyrd — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 20:55:16 +0000

Most people are leaving the dating sites like ALT and collarme due to the high number of fakes on those sites now. You are far more likely to encounter spam and scammers than anything else on them now. Most have gone over to fetlife. However the best bet for meeting someone is still your local munch groups, there you can see how they interact with others, check their reputations, etc.

Comment on BDSM Dating – The Inside Scoop (Update!) by Bryant Jernstad

Bryant Jernstad — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 05:44:40 +0000

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Comment on Irony’s Pet Bitch by adult dilara

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Comment on An Internet Match Making Success by New and Wondering

New and Wondering — Fri, 19 Feb 2010 22:34:17 +0000

Slaveduties,

I’ve been an avid reader of your blog for awhile now, and firstly wanted to thank you for opening my eyes to a whole new side of myself.

I’m undoubtedly a submissive. Furthermore, I’m a lesbian, and it has been my experience that it’s very, very hard to find a dominant woman. Fortunately, when I confessed my desires to my girlfriend, I was lucky enough to have someone who was equally intrigued by the possiblity and we are now involved in a D/s relationship, although not 24/7 (it’s something we’re discussing, although our current living situation makes it difficult).

I have joined ALT in search of friends, and I have made quite a few. I was wondering, if you wouldn’t mind telling me, how old you were when you first realized this was the lifestyle you wanted. I seem to be quite a bit younger than everyone I’ve met so far, and some comments have been made about it. My other question is – and this is quite personal, so please don’t feel obligated to answer it in any way – how is your relationship with your family? What I mean is, I saw that you said they don’t know about your lifestyle. Do you visit them? If you do, how does that work?

And, like Curious, I’m very interested in learning about puppygirl. I don’t know if I could take on that role, but I’m not opposed to it either.

Thank you so much. I hope all of you had a lovely Valentine’s day.

Fondly,
New and Wondering

Comment on Pee Drinking Slave by Slaveduties

Slaveduties — Mon, 15 Feb 2010 16:49:01 +0000

I would say to try Alt.com because you can search for people in the USA and rather than have a support group for Urine lovers you can meet people on an individual basis who share your love for drinking or having their urine drank. I also found this site called experience project that offers a forum for people who enjoy this fetish. People on there will post personal stories and give each other advice although I'm not sure that they are all from the U.S.A. If either Alt.com or the Experience Project help, or if you find another good support site let me know and good luck to you!!! ~slaveduties

Comment on Puppygirl Pet-bitch – Ask and you shall receive by Slaveduties

Slaveduties — Mon, 15 Feb 2010 16:41:00 +0000

Master went to our local fetish/sex shop and had the puppy suit custom made for her. Because it was a surprise for her, I was the one he brought with him to make sure the measurements would be good since her and I have the same body type. The store we went to, specializes in making later costumes as well as leather and PVC.

Comment on Puppygirl Pet-bitch – Ask and you shall receive by Scamp

Scamp — Mon, 15 Feb 2010 08:57:58 +0000

where did your Master get the suit made?

Comment on Pee Drinking Slave by hummingbird4109

hummingbird4109 — Sun, 14 Feb 2010 16:57:46 +0000

I was VERY interested in reading your comment on the Pee Drinking Slave
article.
I have not had much luck in contacting many other practitioners of this act, and was wondering if you could assist me in locating a group (in the U.S.A….I live in Italy) of similar interest that I may join.
It is not easy connecting with females who are of like mind; many do not look upon the act with an open mind.
I have been fortunate to have located a lovely, local 67 year old German woman who has agreed to let me drink as much as I want from her.
She is quasi-vegetarian, and I must tell you that the taste of her urine is exquisite….she saves all of her morning urine for me (a voluminous quantity), and if I can get to her house early enough, it is still body temperature.
I must say that, although I started out drinking women’s urine as a health supplement, I have been finding lately an erotic reaction…especially to the large quantity B.(her initial)gives me to drink…….I recently asked her if it would be possible to drink directly from her, but since we are married to different partners, we have not yet resolved that.
Anyway, if it would be possible to forward to me a link I can contact for person’s of the same interest, I would really appreciate it.

Sincerely,

Hummingbird4109

Comment on An Internet Match Making Success by Curious and Confused

Curious and Confused — Sun, 14 Feb 2010 05:01:56 +0000

Thank you so much for all your advice, you really helped me figure out so much about myself and this lifestyle through your reply and all of your posts. I am now on ALT and I have met some truly amazing and interesting people to chat with. I just recently got into a relationship with the man I’ve been in love with for a long time, and although we’re currently vanilla if I hadn’t explored this side of myself I would still have many gards up; for the first time I got to be emotionally submissive and trust the way I’ve always wanted to.

I hope it works out, but should it not I have a great group of friends on ALT that I still love talking to and learning from, which keeps me open to future possibilities. It is thanks to you that I have these options and that I now feel secure in having the freedom to act on my desires should I choose to :)

On another note I know that it is because of your Master that you have the experience to give the advice you have given, and I am so happy for both of you that you get to experience this incredible lifestyle. I’m glad you had fun on your shopping trip with Mistress Bella, and I thought it was so amazing of her to dress the both of you up as she did; I felt it promoted an underlying sense of human equality although you are the submissive, which was quite touching. I was so happy to hear about your new pet, I hope Rupert is doing well (the name is so cute!). If you choose to respond would you be allowed or like to let me know how puppygirl is doing? I myself could not live like that but from what I’ve heard about her she seems very content and the concept is quite cute, and as always I am infinately interested in learning more about her and everything you write about!

I wish you, your Master, puppygirl, Rupert, and the house slave (as well as anyone I may have missed) a very happy and adventerous Valentine’s day!

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Comment on Shopping with Mistress Bella by Magix

Magix — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 08:53:16 +0000

It sounds like you had a wonderful time. :D

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Pearlie Jackosn — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 02:31:49 +0000

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Mistress Charlot — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 02:00:40 +0000

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MasterMind — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 08:23:47 +0000

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Absinthe Ohmai — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 04:21:42 +0000

i am a submissive on Second Life. i have a home with my Master and every day is a lovely adventure. i found the game to be an easy way to begin my exploration of BDSM. The thoughts have always been with me. i have never known release like i do with Master. Our relationship is not only lived in the game now, but what second lifers refer to as, “in real.” The devotion is consuming and wonderful. The reason for BDSMs popularity in the game is that it is an easy way to bring the fantasy to life, and possibly explore deeper without any real consequences. And if things go too far, you can simply begin a new second life…. nothing to loose. But, if you find that you enjoy your adventure, it may lead to new adventures “in real”:)

Comment on Irony’s Pet Bitch by Slaveduties

Slaveduties — Tue, 02 Feb 2010 18:44:32 +0000

Hi Curious and Confused!
I’m glad that you have really thought about this and have a lot of questions. In my mind it is always better to want to know everything rather than just jumping into this type of lifestyle. You know I did find Master online but I consider myself very lucky to have found someone with whom I connect so well with. I have heard a lot of horrid stories about people ending up meeting very sketchy people online and only realizing what they are getting themselves into once they are tied up. That being said your best option is to always make sure that you meet a potential Mistress or Master in a public area for a couple of times before engaging in any play. Also ask around to see if this person has a reputation. Your best bet is to try and make friends in the BDSM community near you. Go out to fetish and BDSM events and parties. Not only will you have a better chance of meeting someone there but you will also be able to ask around and know what that person is like. I cannot stress enough how cautious people have to be when playing with someone new. As for finding someone who will want a serious relationship while still having BDSM play in your lives that is entirely possible. There’s s no rule set in stone that if you are into BDSM you have to like worshiping feet and being pissed on. In fact most of the people I know each have their own fetishes, no one is exactly alike. The key is finding someone who shares the same ones as you or finding someone with whom you don’t mind fulfilling their fantasies even if it is not their thing, as long as they reciprocate the favor. There are a ton of people out there who are into BDSM but do not want to pursue it as a 24/7 lifestyle. Some couples will have BDSM play dates once every couple of months or so.

You shouldn’t be concerned about being forced into anything. If you make your boundaries clear and state what you will or not do, any good Master or Mistress will respect that. I knwo a couple of female slaves that are major pain sluts and can take any beating given to them and yet if you happen to verbally abuse them or degrade them like calling them a slut, they fall apart. Everyone has their own limits, you just need to make sure that yours and your partners are not only heard but also understood. I think that pretty much covers all your questions, if I forgot anything don’t hesitate to respond! I wish you the best of luck in finding a Master/ partner!!!
-slaveduties

Comment on Irony’s Pet Bitch by Curious and Confused

Curious and Confused — Fri, 29 Jan 2010 08:52:03 +0000

Regarding this post, I must say . . . even as a straight chick I think Irony is amazing! If it wasn’t for Mistress Irony and Goddess Starla, I would have never realized that I could take pleasure in the dominant side of BDSM. That being said . . . I have a few questions. I am only 19 years old, and have had BDSM submissive fantasies since I was 10. Finding your blog has really helped me realize that I’m not that weird, and that I’m not all alone in this. I do, however, view positive emotions as a healthy part of a relationship (aka I have too much sexual trauma in my past to let myself be emotionally degraded, but I have no problem with the physical aspect of these situations). So my questions are: is it possible to be in an emotionally “vanilla” relationship while still incorporating interchangeable BDSM play in the bedroom? Do you have to be open to same-sex play in this lifestyle, or have any Master force you to sleep with other guys or perform sexual favors with them? Is it acceptable to only be intrigued by giving or receiving pain (or torture by chastity) but not by anything involving feet or urine? Are people who live this lifestyle really safe (as in, can I be secure in trusting that in these situations I won’t be raped or forced to tolerate physical or emotional situations beyond my control)? I’m just a girl who’s been severely emotionally damaged with a past of sexual trauma, who’s been able to get myself off since I was 10 and yet a sexual partner can’t get the job done, and who wants a relationship that’s male/female, physically and emotionally satisfying but not emotionally degrading (regarding sexual humiliation in front of others). So I guess my overall question is: is it possible to be in an interchangeable BDSM relationship while still being in an emotionally “vanilla” relationship outside the bedroom (or dungeon if I get really lucky)? Because I can say this much: As for male/female one on one (or even being dominated by a female as long as I don’t have to perform oral sex on her [or] my metaphorical Master would be loyal to me and not allow anyone but me to make him cum), I would want to experience a good majority of what you’ve referenced on this blog before I die, including some of the kinkiest and most painful activities. Is BDSM for me, or do I have to choose between physical and emotional satisfaction? I’m sorry for all the questions, but I’m at a turning point in my life and sexuality and I could really use some help here! – Curious and Confused

Comment on Irony’s Pet Bitch by Dan

Dan — Fri, 29 Jan 2010 08:15:12 +0000

I am very new to all this.I think I really like the idea of having a slave .maybe we kind find one and train her to be my registered working dog since I get around in away wheelchair.

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ElaineC — Wed, 27 Jan 2010 03:16:17 +0000

That sounds like a fun evening – and to get $300 to spend on yourself, I can hardly wait to hear about your shopping adventure.

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Magix — Fri, 22 Jan 2010 12:55:46 +0000

Debby’s position. My mistake.

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Magix — Fri, 22 Jan 2010 12:54:43 +0000

Wow, that surely would take a lot of effort. She seemed to be doing pretty well until the end part. I must admit I did laugh a little at her Master’s reaction. “No noises, no moving, no breathing! What the fuck!” and then he says “Don’t drop my glass.” the don’t drop my glass bit I found funny for some reason. I would find it incredibly difficult to be in Debby’s though, and it would take some real skill and practice to get right. I know I can’t keep a straight face for very long.

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Comment on BDSM Dating – The Inside Scoop (Update!) by Magix

Magix — Tue, 19 Jan 2010 21:20:20 +0000

I find this blog so fascinating and I’ve read through the whole thing more than once. I hope to hear more from you about your daily life and the lives of others. I have an acute fascination with bdsm so I find slaveduties most interesting. It’s helped give me ideas, so thanks for that! Will be checking in regularly.

Comment on BDSM Dating – The Inside Scoop (Update!) by Slaveduties

Slaveduties — Mon, 18 Jan 2010 14:49:07 +0000

Hentai,

I agree with you to a certain degree about the money issue, but at the same time it’s kind of understandable…what they do is their livelihood…just like other sites sell advertising to make a living. What they do is their job, just like if you rang up those old types of dating services you’d have to pay them :) While I’d love for everything online to be free, unfortunately the internet is just like the real-world…you don’t expect to go into a an ice-cream parlor and expect to get a free icecream cone after the free taste test?

I do know of some other BDSM community sites that are free to use, perhaps I’ll do a review of one of those in the future, I have reviewed alt.com several times simply because it’s what I used to get into the lifestyle I’m in and really am thankful that they exist every day!

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Morralls — Sun, 17 Jan 2010 09:33:44 +0000

Hi there slaveduties. I was wondering if you would e-mail me. I’ve read seven pages of your blog and I’m really intrigued and interested in talking to a slave about what it’s like.

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Comment on BDSM Dating – The Inside Scoop (Update!) by Hentai

Hentai — Fri, 15 Jan 2010 03:29:24 +0000

Oh Xena

If you see the msg just to say she may be farther away then you think if im correct in saying the internet does this special thing where it creates a map around the area you are based and in this for me its showing me near the London area in your case its different.

I could be wrong that said however I always get msgs claiming tthat theres all these sexy women in a town 1 mile away I know thats all rubbish because half of them will live in america and the other half somewhere else.

Just to let you know if you are reading this i could be wrong but i doubt it.

(Oh love the blog by the way lol just thought i would add that my randomness never ends)

Comment on BDSM Dating – The Inside Scoop (Update!) by Hentai

Hentai — Fri, 15 Jan 2010 03:22:27 +0000

I did join this site that said however im tight with money and they are stingy to ppl without silver or gold accounts so funny how the accout I set up with them is almost useless its only purpose is to be seen by others I cant check my own e-mails or other ppls profiles without forking out money its really evil to let ppl set up accounts just to tell them thats as far as they can go they can set up an account and thats it or pay £100 something a year if you meet someone thats good but if you dont then the money was wasted its a double edged sword

(Sigh):(

Comment on BDSM Dating – The Inside Scoop (Update!) by Xena

Xena — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 02:48:58 +0000

Ok, so I’m totally suprised that I recognized that map. I live in CR and was just expecting that like all great blog writers you were halfway across the country.

Anyway, keep up the good work. I really enjoy reading about your life.

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Lily — Fri, 01 Jan 2010 18:44:59 +0000

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Comment on Padded Kink by Taylor

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Lesley — Mon, 21 Dec 2009 02:59:53 +0000

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Slutty Danielle — Fri, 18 Dec 2009 22:13:47 +0000

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Comment on Candle wax Torture and a Cat O’Nines by Slaveduties

Slaveduties — Fri, 18 Dec 2009 18:29:06 +0000

Master said he ordered them off of JTStockroom =) Hope that helps!

Comment on Candle wax Torture and a Cat O’Nines by Slutty Danielle

Slutty Danielle — Fri, 18 Dec 2009 00:47:27 +0000

Great post :)

My Mistress wants me to ask where you got this Cat O’Nine Tails and the paddle with vampire pricks.

Comment on A small taste of life to come by endless pleasure

endless pleasure — Thu, 17 Dec 2009 21:16:06 +0000

I love most of what you do on here, but this sickened me. I can’t believe that anyone who cares even the slightest bit for someone could force them to endure this. I would not wish this upon anyone in the world, it is torture for no reason. I fail to see any reason for doing this to someone, it completely contradicts the basic principle that a master should love their slave, and is mindless torture.

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zoiloland@hotmail.com — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 03:59:31 +0000

it works?

Comment on Femdom Bride’s New Trailer! by Slaveduties

Slaveduties — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 15:12:29 +0000

You should be talking to Goddess Starla about this hun, I’m just a slave. She’s hot though eh? I would love to have her dominate me as well.

Comment on Femdom Bride’s New Trailer! by Slaveduties

Slaveduties — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 15:11:36 +0000

I’ve written a couple of articles on how to begin a BDSM relationship, and about what BDSM is exactly. I really hope reading those will help! If you have any specific question don’t feel shy, just ask away!

Comment on Femdom Bride’s New Trailer! by Slaveduties

Slaveduties — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 15:10:16 +0000

My parents don’t know about the lifestyle that I lead. As far as they know, I work as am aspiring writer for different companies on the web. God love the technological ignorance of the older generations. My parents are not computer savvy. As far as how long I will live as a slave, I can’t say for sure. I mean honestly none of us know what the future holds and I find that I learn new things about myself all the time. As far as I can say for now, I will be a slave until the day I die. I don’t have any friends, besides the few that I have met and speak to on the net. Master has many friends that I get to spend time with, but they are all into kink and so they think nothing of my position in life. I wouldn’t have it any other way;)

Comment on Candle wax Torture and a Cat O’Nines by Slaveduties

Slaveduties — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 15:05:24 +0000

I used to have a major problem with jealousy. It’s something which I have worked very very hard at over the years to get over. And you know in this type of relationship there’s no room for jealousy. Jealousy here is something that adds to the pain. I might get a little jealous, like if Master gets a new pet to play with, but ultimately it proves to be useless for me, just wasted emotions. I’ve come so far that I can now say that watching Master dominate another woman intrigues me. I especially love it if I get to take part in it, like hold her for him. I know deep down that Master would never replace me and that the love and admiration I hold so dear of him is reciprocated just as deeply but in perhaps a different way by him. I hope that made sense to you, I’m a little tired this morning!

Comment on Candle wax Torture and a Cat O’Nines by R

Thu, 03 Dec 2009 03:22:24 +0000

In reponse to your comment about dating, do you not feel jealous when your Master, someone I assume you “love” on a level difficult for me to comprehend, “dates” other women? I would want to represnet some sort of treasure for my Master. Perhaps I am just to jealous?

Comment on Forniphilia, Wine and Cheese by R

Thu, 03 Dec 2009 03:08:17 +0000

I’m absolutely fascinated by all of this. I love reading your entries. My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now, and we’ve played timidly in activities that resemble subs and doms. I wonder if we’ll ever reach as deep as you have into such an intimidating world. I prefer to be submissive, and he gets great pleasure from being domineering.

You are so courageous! I will become a avid reader.

Comment on Bondage + Chores = Fun! by Sex Toys, Adam & Eve

Sex Toys, Adam & Eve — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 07:04:28 +0000

Wow! To be constantly aroused sounds amazing – especially when you can think about cleaning and doing the dishes as foreplay! Sounds like fun ;)

Comment on Glorious Rope Bondage by Sex Toys, Adam & Eve

Sex Toys, Adam & Eve — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 04:28:44 +0000

Agreed – the red lips are a nice touch, as is the perspective and her bare feet! It’s definitely a background worthy photograph!

Comment on Femdom Bride’s New Trailer! by Mishelle

Mishelle — Sun, 29 Nov 2009 16:58:43 +0000

Hi just curious what do your parents and friends think of your lifestyle. Also do you still plan on living this life even when you are much older?

Comment on Forniphilia, Wine and Cheese by K

Wed, 25 Nov 2009 23:57:15 +0000

I love the visuals in this entry!

Comment on Femdom Bride’s New Trailer! by K

Wed, 25 Nov 2009 23:54:02 +0000

I just stumbled upon your site in my search to learn about BDSM. I’m reading a fanfic now called Heartbreak Remedy that is about BDSM and just reading the first several chapters had me wetter then I ever remember being outside of actual touching! I’m intrigued and don’t know much about BDSM so I’m doing my research. I’m married and my husband said he would be willing to try anything with me. I don’t know if I could handle pain, but being dominated sounds heavenly. It makes me quiver just thinking about him calling me a bitch while I’m on my knees, tied up with restraints while he fucks my mouth as hard as he can. So, if this site is for real (no offense, but you never know nowadays) please feel free to contact me if you have any tips or direction for me. As for now, I’m going to go back to reading your site. :)

Comment on Femdom Bride’s New Trailer! by billysose5101@gmail.c

billysose5101@gmail.c — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 04:01:52 +0000

PLEASEput your cage on me.I would love for you to dominate me like you did to your slave

please come get me and have your way with me

Comment on Femdom Bride’s New Trailer! by Master

Master — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 05:36:05 +0000

Ha ha that shit is funny after he is jerked off she made him eat it lol.

Comment on Candle wax Torture and a Cat O’Nines by Phoenix

Phoenix — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 00:24:15 +0000

Wow… This post left me breathless. It sounds so amazing, and makes me wish that Master would buy a cat of nine tails! However, I know that, as I am now, I would probably be crying by the first strike. Haha!

Comment on Femdom Bride’s New Trailer! by blue64pf

blue64pf — Tue, 17 Nov 2009 23:49:45 +0000

Your site is very very interesting and my english very bad I know-)

If You need some collaboration, write to me !

You have awakened in me my desire of submission or, submission to me.

Thanks…-)))

Comment on Candle wax Torture and a Cat O’Nines by Slaveduties

Slaveduties — Tue, 17 Nov 2009 20:12:56 +0000

Today!

Comment on Candle wax Torture and a Cat O’Nines by Slaveduties

Slaveduties — Tue, 17 Nov 2009 20:12:32 +0000

Fortunately or unfortunately, depending on how you look at it, I do not date. I belong to my Master and do everything that he wants me to do. Master, as far as I know of has dated people here and there, but it is sometimes hard to find someone who is accepting and willing to try out his lifestyle. As for myself, I have been loaned out to Master’s friends every once in awhile, which I guess you could say is like dating someone else, except for the fact that I do not chose who this person is, nor am I the one who decides to stop seeing that person. Hope that quelled your curiosity! =D

Comment on Candle wax Torture and a Cat O’Nines by Wendy

Wendy — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 18:02:29 +0000

hey when are you coming out with a new post?

Comment on Candle wax Torture and a Cat O’Nines by Josef

Josef — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 11:21:50 +0000

Thank you for the (pardon the phrase) blow-by-blow account. I’m consistently in awe of your spirit’s strength to go through such ordeals.

Comment on Candle wax Torture and a Cat O’Nines by Wendywu

Wendywu — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 23:41:57 +0000

Hello, Its always intersting to read about your expierences, it makes me very curious about your life. I just have one question are you and your master in a dating relationship or do you both date other people because I have heard you mention that there are other people that live with you.

Comment on Candle wax Torture and a Cat O’Nines by wendy

wendy — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 23:37:14 +0000

I love reading about your expeirences and it always makes me curious. First of all I was just wondering if you guys are in like a dating relationship or do you date other people because you have mentioned that you live with other people?

Comment on Candle wax Torture and a Cat O’Nines by ElaineC

ElaineC — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 08:53:29 +0000

It’s so wonderful to read your personal experiences. This one brought tears to my eyes. The pain is very real – however, there is nothing that compares to knowing that you have pleased your Master.

Comment on Candle wax Torture and a Cat O’Nines by Slaveduties

Slaveduties — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 19:00:19 +0000

don’t get me wrong, the supreme peace I experienced afterward was well worth the pain. Well at least to me it is =)

Comment on A BDSM Library of Art dictates our Fetish Future! by xtasyshine

xtasyshine — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 14:29:34 +0000

Lol, you made my day with this.

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spandex2go — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 14:28:57 +0000

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Comment on Candle wax Torture and a Cat O’Nines by Jennifer

Jennifer — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 04:26:23 +0000

I am somewhat sorry to here about your painful experience with the Cat-Of-Ninetails. Do you think your master will use it often so you get used to it,though you can never truly get used that whip,but still.

Comment on BDSM Chat Comes to Slaveduties.com by boobluver

boobluver — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 14:21:03 +0000

hey hello i m 27 yr male & love to play with boobs :)
any girl interested ; )

Comment on My name is… by Slaveduties

Slaveduties — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 18:40:52 +0000

I’m not allowed to give my name away, mainly because Master wants to ensure that If I chose to leave at some point, I will be able to have a good anonymous and normal life. Thanks for your interest though, it does mean alot!

Comment on Branded by Slaveduties

Slaveduties — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 18:38:07 +0000

I didn’t really want it. But at the same time part of me did. I’m sure I could have convinced him not to brand me, but a part of me took pleasure of having his mark on me permanently. He is a part of me and it just seemed fitting that I carry the mark of being his property because I really am, body and soul his.

Comment on Posture Collar, Out With the Old – In With the New by Slaveduties

Slaveduties — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 18:35:03 +0000

Hey Jennie,

It has been almost three years since I’ve been blogging…well in April it will be three years. I can’t even believe that time has gone by so fast, it feels like just yesterday that Master led me to the computer and told me his idea. As for my posture collar,it did take me awhile to get used to it i think. It’s hard to remember the days when i was not wearing it. I’ve grown so accustomed to having something around my neck that now I feel utterly naked on those rare occasions when it gets taken off. It’s true, the collar lives what I live everyday, it comes into the shower with me, gets soaked with sweat when I work out. It’s like a best friends that goes through everything that I do. That being said, the collar gets taken off about once a month to ensure that it is clean enough that the skin on my neck is ok. There were time when I had to have it left off for awhile because my skin would get a rash or become very sensitive. I’ve learned how to take care of my neck ad my collar so that it rarely happens now. I try to make sure after showering or getting it wet that I either dry the inside of it with a towel that I try to hove in between my neck and the collar or sometimes I use a hairdryer.

I don’t work. I don’t have a drivers license or anything, but the security is there that I now if ever I chose to lead a so called normal life, my master would help me reestablish myself into society. If becoming a house slave is something that you truly want to do then I say go for it! It is a whole new level of submission and I won’t lie when I say that it is extremely hard in the beginning. You go through spurts of loneliness and self doubt, but I have found that over the years I have completely embraced my utter submission to my Master. I hope this helps you a bit! Let me know what happens!

-Slaveduties

Comment on My name is… by Jennifer

Jennifer — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 01:02:47 +0000

Your blog really interests me,if I had your doctor I would be really creeped out I don’t like doctors. Do you mind me asking what your names is,if your aloud to tell people

Comment on Once a slave, always a… by Jennifer

Jennifer — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 00:46:00 +0000

You may not have any material possesions,but you have a brain and that’s all you really need.

Comment on Branded by Jennifer

Jennifer — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 00:02:13 +0000

Did you want to be branded. Or did you Master tell you that you were going to be branded and you had no choice?

Comment on Posture Collar, Out With the Old – In With the New by jennie

jennie — Sun, 25 Oct 2009 19:10:23 +0000

Dear slave duties,

How long has your master been allowing you to blog? How long did it take to get used to your collar? I thought your master would take it off for showers or for you to work out, etc. but no! I’m assuming you don’t work, right? my master wants me to quit my job so that I could be at home all the time wearing my collar. He wants me in one like yours that is very tight and covers my whole neck from base to under my chin and locked. He might allow me to move about the house while he is away, but when home, I have to be lead by my collar – and chain or leash.

Jennie

Comment on Forniphilia, Wine and Cheese by Slaveduties

Slaveduties — Mon, 19 Oct 2009 18:24:16 +0000

Our house slave is back in her hometown for a little bit of a vacation to cope with some personal issues. She’s been gone about a month or so now and I do miss her terribly.
As far as safe words go… we used to have a safe word code; yellow to slow down , red to stop. But it has been so long since I have used those. In the beginning I did find myself on very rare occasions using them but I think that as Master learned my body and I began to learn to tolerate pain, the words became kind of useless. Although I am sure that if I happened to use them now, he would still obey them, I just haven’t felt the need to use them in so long! Thank you so much for the complement! It means a lot when I get feedback whether it is good or bad!

Comment on Forniphilia, Wine and Cheese by S

Mon, 19 Oct 2009 17:51:51 +0000

I have two questions for you, first what happend to the house slave? And second; do you and your Master have a Safe Word? Have you ever used it and if you don’t, how do you let him know that your being pushed to far. Just curious, Love your blog by the way.

Comment on BDSM Lezdom by Slaveduties

Slaveduties — Wed, 14 Oct 2009 20:33:33 +0000

Hiya Kelly, I do know exactly what your talking about – I’ve noticed this myself in my writing, and honestly it’s because many people were emailing me constantly asking me to post more content and to talk about it, and give my opinions on it…so I kind of felt, hey! I should give my readers what they want! That being said though, your not the first person to go the other way and say they want more of what I used to write about. I’ve decided to try and mix and match between the two, depending on how I feel that day, and if I have anything good to write about – while also giving my opinions on other site and posting new and fresh content. I only hope that I can please as many people as possible :)