As a fulltime 24/7 slave, stories like this give me the creeps. I think anyone who thinks a contract gives you grounds to abuse someone who doesn’t want it, has to have brain damage. What kind of shit for brains would actually believe that? This Danish man apparently.
I’m used and abused daily. I get peed on and caged, and beaten…I wake up and my morning routine involves all sorts of bodily fluids. I love the fact that my morning routine involves anal sex. I love the fact that I am woken up when Master decides he wants me up, and through the bars in my cage I receive his morning cock. I look forward to it…because I want it! This poor woman in the story didn’t…and thats where it becomes wrong.
“Copenhagen - A Danish court has jailed a man for sexually abusing his former girlfriend, despite the fact that she had signed a contract agreeing to be his sex slave, media here reported on Friday.
The 24-year-old man, whose name was not given, had held a woman with whom he had previously had a sadomasochistic relationship bound in a cellar.
He whipped and raped her, but insisted she had agreed to the abuse by signing a “sex slave contract,” the Ritzau news agency reported.
A Copenhagen court ruled the man had tricked her into signing the contract, and sentenced him to three years behind bars.
The couple had met after splitting up so the woman could sign some papers.
She told the court she had not noticed he had slipped a contract into the pile stating that she agreed to be his slave in a sadomasochistic relationship, Ritzau reported.
The man had shown up at her apartment a week later, handcuffed and gagged her and drove her to their former home. After abusing her, he had left her chained to a water pipe in the cellar, from where she had finally managed to escape.
In addition to the prison term, the court sentenced the 24-year-old to pay his former girlfriend compensation of about €9 600.“
I actually think its harder being a dominant than a submissive sometimes…you have to walk this fine line, because as a slave, we want things done to us that we don’t want. We want to be tortured…at least some of us do. So as a dominant you need to give just enough torture to fulfill our cravings for it, but not become so abusive that pushes us beyond our limits. I have a very high tolerance for abuse, and if I didn’t receive it daily, I’d be depressed - its just how I’m built, I can’t help it.
On the other side of the coin…always read what your going to sign!
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Things like this anger me because they only serve to reinforce the stereotypes so many have of the Dom/sub relationship as out and out abuse and of Doms as deviants who don’t care for their subs. My Master and I both have been verbally attacked by people who don’t understand.
My Master treasures me, is always concerned for my well-being, and asks me to regularly to make sure that being his sub is still what I want to do. I do not envy him the task of figuring out just how far to push things at times when I don’t always know myself, but he always seems to know just when to stop or when to take it one step further. Our relationship is not 24/7, it is not what my Master and I want. We must each find the level that makes us happy and Master and I have.
The man in that news story is no Master, he is just an abuser looking for an excuse to terrorize someone else.
Your absolutely right Elaine…it’s truly unbelievable what some people think is BDSM. BDSM at it’s core is not abuse. I say myself I am abused and this and that, but in reality - it’s not really abuse. It’s exactly what I want, as much as I want. Thats why it’s so hard being a dom because you have to go right to the edge, you have to be an amazing judge of character. It can take years of practice to get to that point.
guys like this simply *think* they are doms…in reality, they are just power hungry idiots.
Most certainly. Most people think that a Dom is just out to make himself happy by abusing another person. That couldn’t be further from the truth. I wish more people understood that, them perhaps BDSM would be more accepted.
When my Dom and I play, at the end I may be shaking, bruised, and left with rope marks that will last for days, but I’m giggling with happiness because it is what I wanted. He is happy also, because my submission has filled a need in him. Of course, there is nothing quite like having your Dom look at you and tell you that you pleased him. I count myself lucky to have such a wonderful Dom.
must agree with both of you here - this is just ridiculous
disgusting.