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We have all heard of BDSM but I have to wonder how many of us actually know what this broad term means and what exactly it encompasses. BDSM stands for Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, Sadism & Masochism.  Bondage and discipline are very different from sadism and masochism and I’ve decided to clear these terms up for us!

B&D: Bondage is described as the practice of restraining for pleasure, meaning the use of handcuffs or rope to restrain one’s appendages. Bondage is the means to have perfect control over the submissive partner’s body. Through B&D, subs find comfort in being controlled and freed of any thoughts they may have. The Dom in B&D might even inflict tolerable pain upon their partner.

Discipline here, describes the rules and punishments that are put into place to control overt behavior in BDSM relationships. Although I have linked bondage and discipline together here, they are not always interlinked. Bondage can be practiced for fun without any form of discipline attached to it just as one can practice discipline without using bondage as a means to achieve that end.  It should also be noted that bondage is not always but usually is sexual.

D&S: Dominance and Submission go hand in hand. Ususally in these types of relationships there is some sort of pampering going on. For example, Master will ask me to serve him as a maid and a cook. If we were in a B&D relationship then he would not ask this of me but rather he would just want to do things to me like put me in a staccado position and flog me. In short D&S is the set of rituals and customs that involve one person submitting themselves to, and giving dominance to their partner. There are a wide range of fetishes that fall under the D&S category like cuckoldry, slavedom (depending on the individual case), petplay,etc.

the key phrase in D&S is Total Power Exchange since the submissive will give all control that they may have over themselves to their dominant partner. A D&S relationship can be a lifetsyle choice that is ongoing and permanent or it can be something that only takes place for short spurts of time.

S&M: Sadomasochism is derived from the two terms sadism and masochism. think about the Marquise de Sade when thinking about these two terms and you will be on the right track in trying to understand them. S&M refers to the physical aspect of BDSM and applies strictly to sexual and erotic scenarios. Meaning that it does not apply to the pain received during a car accident for example! Sadism being pleasure that is derived from inflicting physical pain, humiliation, degradation on another person and masochism being the experience of pleasure derived through receiving physical pain inflicted upon oneself. One can be in a D&S or even a B&D relationship that also involves S&M.

And so there you have it folks the breakdown of what BDSM really stands for. I could have gone a lot more indepth in this post but maybe I’ll save the juicy details for another day!

Living in a 24/7 BDSM lifestyle relationship requires a lot of patience, determination, effort and above all creativity. This is what I have learned from my own experiences as well as from watching Master’s documentation of other real BDSM lifestylers on everydayslaves.com. I know I have said this before, but truthfully being the subservient slave seems to me, much easier than being the responsible and dominating Master. All i have to worry about in my day to day life is making Master happy by performing my required tasks and obeying his commands. And although these commands and tasks are sometimes both physically and mentally challenging, they in no way compare to the stress of being responsible for a slave, a job and a house.

This is what I always have to remind myself of whenever I feel as though Master is not being fair…. it is his job to do the thinking and mine to obey without thought. but let’s get back to the idea that it takes a lot of creativity to be a good Master or Mistress. Without fresh and new ideas of how to torture, test and even please your slave….just as it is with any pet…..things start to become dull and can cause depression in the slave. Slaves are not beyond the human need for mental stimuli and therefore the need for creative ideas in maintaining the sub/dom relationship is vital. Just watch Mistress Ursela as she cages her female slave into…of all things…a shopping cart! Mistress Ursela is not above using everyday objects and things to create new fun ways to play with her pet slave! It is these types of novel ideas that make a good Mistress and Master….like the time that Master decided to saran wrap me when we had no fresh rope left in the house! I think if I had never found Master or rather if Master had never found me, that I would be almost as happy as I am now if I were serving Mistress Ursela!

Something that has become bigger and bigger in the fetish scene is people acting as living dolls. It must be every guy’s dream to have a living, breathing fuck doll that he can manipulate and use every which way he wants! Wasteland recently got to document Johnny using and abusing his slave Debby as she attempted to be a good and silent doll. Unfortunately for Debby, being a doll is harder than she thought and so she gets punished for failing to play the game properly!

Acting as a doll might sound like an easy concept but fuck toys have a harder life than I do, or any slave for that matter. The rules involved in this kind of play are much stricter than those that apply to slaves, imagine not being able to make a sound, to have to limit the amount of times you blink, to have to make it seem as though you are not really breathing and to keep your face in one facial expression only! I find it hard enough when Master makes me stay in a demanding position for long periods of time let alone to have to do this day in and day out. As a slave, my Master acknowledges the fact that I have emotions and takes pride in himself when he makes me cry, yelp or scream with pain or pleasure. As a living doll though, you serve no other purpose than to act as an inanimate object for your owner and are truly stripped away of not just your identity but of your humanity.

I think that being a living doll is the ultimate test of mind over matter and would love to try to act as one for my own Master. Just think about the zen like state that could be achieved as you force yourself to be nothing more than an object, to have no thoughts but those of maintaining your position and keeping yourself silent. I have attained unbelievable sub zero space through the actions of my Master during certain strenuous torture sessions and cannot cannot even imagine what this added element would let me experience during an equally gruesome and hard session!

This is a little preview of something that I am very familiar with….duct-tape and BDSM! In fact Master had been talking to some of his friends at Wasteland about a torture session that he had put me through and they loved it so much that they recreated their own version of our private session! It’s kind of eerie to watch Leila as she squirms around, all taped up, and unable to do a thing about it, knowing exactly how she must feel.

With her eyes and ears both being taped up, it is impossible for her to see anything and just as hard to hear what is going on. That is what is so awesome about this idea since she has no idea what is in store for her. Leila can’t even hear Master Eric X’s foot steps and therefore has no clue as to whether he is near her or not! There’s something beautiful about this simple technique of sensory deprivation. The way it allows a slave to drift into a different mindset that allows them to take in the pain as well as the pleasure that their Master is giving them. Hearing Leila’s screams, as she gets shocked with electricity and the moans she gives off as the magic wand stimulates her pussy, made me so utterly horny that it must be  enough to make anyone riled up and ready to go at it!

Master let me watch the video he took of Goddess Starla cuckolding her slave Randy by putting a strapon on him and making him fuck her.  I say it was cuckolding because she had just woken up from dreaming about her ex-boyfriend and decided to play out her fantasy by imagining that it was her ex-boyfriend and not Randy’s strapon that she was fucking.

Sometimes Master will play at the same game with me and fuck other girls infront of me -which leaves me horny, jealous and unable to quench the sexual frustration that I feel- I imagine this must be what Randy felt like during this experience, since the chastity device that Goddess Starla put on him denies him any sensation that he would normally receive even with a strapon attached on him. I’m not sure what’s worse… having to watch another women pleasure your Master in front of your own eyes or being told that a strapon being imagined as someone else’s cock is better than your own! Either way I feel for poor Randy when I watch this!

This amazing interracial BDSM couple was documented a while ago - if you know of Everydayslaves.com then you definately know Hellizabeth (the switch) - whom you’ve seen documented as both a slave as well as a Mistress. Well, in this particular video - shes most certainly the slave of this powerful amazing black dom (her boyfriend of the time.) - and he does certainly know how to handle her. Her petite frame is easily manipulated by him…he easily forces his hands into her most private of parts…her arms bound behind her back…incapable of stopping what he wants to do, which is exactly how any real slave loves to be treated! There is plenty more where this came from, and honestly…your missing out big time if you don’t check it out!

This is a very cool documentary video from Femdombride.com - I’ve talked about them before…A lifestyle 24/7 female dominated marriage. It’s sort of like my relationship with Master but flipped so that the female is in constant power and control. In this particular video Goddess Starla has decided to edge her husband Randy to the brink of orgasm and keep him there for an extended period of time. It’s a brutal torture as most men would imagine, and ultimately - she pushes Randy over the edge, but she had not given him permission…therefore he failed - and as a punishment he is put into chastity again for two weeks! Brutal.

There are many themes at play here, and this gives a pretty good idea of what the site is about, and why I love it so much. True 24/7 lifestyle documentary, that covers a range of fetishes that are all somehow connected, and all play off each other. If your into femdom in any way/shape/form then this site definately has a LOT to offer you.

Nice thing about this site is it’s super organized, and easy to use…giving you lots of options - 1280×720 true HD video, or the lower qualities if you don’t quite have the internet connection to deal with the higher resolution stuff. Everything is available in flash too (so it’s almost like watching youtube or something) which makes it super user friendly.

As a member of this site You can also contact Goddess Starla at any time and speak with her yourself through e-mail - and if you get along, then she loves taking it to the next level and even has a stable of online/phone slaves that is growing daily which you can become a part of. Altogether - the community is very cool, and is something that you will definately get into if your into the lifestyle or even thinking about it.

Another neat feature (of many) is the weekly live webcam shows that are FREE for you to watch as a member! Also, there is tons of DVD videos that you can watch as well :)

Enjoy the video, and check out Femdombride.com!

I am simply in love with Mistress Irony. Master is a good friend of hers and she comes over a lot. She is wickedly brutal, and a true sadist which is honestly pretty hard to find in many people. A lot of people that practice BDSM are often not true sadists, which is not a bad thing, whatever reason they choose to do what they do is fine, but in my experience - it’s been rare to find someone who really enjoys inflicting pain on someone else. That really loves the total control - especially among women. Many women I’ve found (especially in porn) aren’t doing it because they truly enjoy it, they may find it an interesting experience, or whatever…but Mistress Irony (this video is from Wasteland.com by the way) is the exception. The only other real Goddess whom I know in real life that I know 100% is a true sadist, true believer in female supremacy, and lives the lifestyle 24/7 is Goddess Starla from Femdombride.com - she and Mistress Irony are good friends as well, and you can see plenty of documentation of them dominating the hell out of her husband in 24/7 chastity Randy over at Femdombride.com

But back to the point - this video from Wasteland gives a very good glimpse of what Mistress Irony is capable of. You can see the twinlke in her eye as she keeps her slut slave on the verge of orgasm…she truly enjoys what she does, and that is one of the biggest turn-ons there is I think. I truly love being beaten by her, or teased and denied orgasms for hours. I’m so lucky in my lifestyle that Master allows his friends to dominate me. Like I’ve mentioned in previous posts…I love cock, I worship it, I could not live without Master’s cock in all my holes on a daily basis - however, god knows I looooove women too…I love worshipping Master’s girlfriends’ feet, being subservient to them, while Master is fucking them…watching as their pussy is filled with My Master’s cock is thrilling!

Relevant links in this post: Wasteland, Femdombride

A good dom is a smart dom. In the case of this Master and slave, smart BDSM is applied properly through the use of an ultimatum - and it makes for a great show as well! This video from Wasteland turns me on so much it’s unbelievable. She’s given the ultimatum…either accept the electrical shocks wracking the most sensitive parts of your body - or take a massive machine fucking dildo up your ass for an undetermined amount of time.

She gets shocked countless times, begging to stop - she agrees - and is of course given the anal torture as told. This is useful for slaves in many ways. My Master does it all the time…we’re given a small bit of control over our situation - but really, both outcomes are what my Master (and this master) want, so no matter what - Master gets what he wants - which is how it should be!

I have been made to stand on my tippy toes for hours - which hurts beyond belief…my legs and small feet shake uncontrollably…however if I put my heels to the ground, the electric node that is sitting an inch from my pussy make contact - and I get a brutal shock to my most sensitive area. I love these situations, and I’m glad our friends at Wasteland have many like them!

This amazing video provided by Wasteland.com shows just how intense two women given the oppurtunity can be. This is a fairly tame example of what’s inside the vaults of Wasteland - having been around for nearly 15 years - theres more stuff in there than you could watch in a lifetime. But I really love this video (which I cut down by the way, the full version inside the members area is over 20 minutes long) - because of these two particular girls. In this video Slave Ava is pushed to some of her limits…her breasts are horribly abused - yet you see how she accepts it, then moves on - only to be pushed to her next limit.

Reminds me of many times that I have been dominated by my Master’s lady friends. Always humiliated - broken down, only to then watch that same woman make love to my Master right in front of me. It is useful in training, even when you are owned by a male, to be dominated by a woman. It reinforces the dehuminzation of myself, that I have no pride or ego. And this video, along as others in Wasteland help me to reinforce that fact.

Also exclusive to Wasteland is the amazing fucking machine that is in this video. This thing is the cream of the crop, is controllable via laptop, smartphone, or bluetooth headset voice commands! Find out more about it inside!

 

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What is the appeal of gasmasks in fetish play? As you all know, I’m a lifestyle 24/7 submissive - and so I happen to encounter gas masks on a constant basis. I wear them quite often. They’ve always added something, but I’m never really sure what. As I’m always the one looking out from those eye-holes, and never into them. But when I saw this new Site called NeoNasty.com - It all became clear. And so did my panties with my own juices. I made this wallpaper (see above) out of one of their pictures.

I think the main idea is de-huminization - at least thats what it was for me. I realised that when my head and face is encased in rubber, I no longer look human…when Master beats me, he is not beating a human, he is abusing a human body, with no face, no mind, nothing behind the eyes. Thats definately one thing that NeoNasty.com brings out in me, is these AMAZING female bodies, with no faces, no expressions…just meat. Flesh to be used and abused.

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A bit of an older video from Everydayslaves.com - but a good one none the less! Mistress Eris takes advantage of her lifestyle slave Pat, whom if I may say so myself looks downright humiliated to be dressed as he is. But - as we all know, humiliation is a wonderful tool for breaking someone down and rebuilding them as the perfect slave!

The age of this video actually made me do a double take, and I went into the members area of Everydayslaves.com, my master’s website - and low and behold…I saw nearly 100 (yes one hundred) full length movies. How unreal is that?! And most of the recent ones are in true high definition. It seems like just yesterday Master set out with his new camera to document a like-minded lifestyle couple.

Amazing how time flies, and it’s even more astonishing to think just how much Master has done in the last year and a half or so. How many couples, how much torture, submission, and domination he has witnessed, and then digitized so that you could see it. It’s quite amazing really! Well…make sure you check out the members area, as it only costs about the same as a pizza - and it’s cheaper than a date, in these tough economic times!